16 Charitable Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day

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This Valentine’s Day, forget the wining and dining. Do something that matters.

Like many people, I’ve had good Valentine’s Days and well, not so good.

The not-so-good dates back to middle school, when I, like many of my classmates, anxiously awaited one of those pink-dyed carnations from what I hoped would be a secret admirer. Much to my dismay, the carnation never came, and for years, it left me feeling downright uneasy about the 14th of February.

I later came to realize that Valentine’s Day is about much more than getting flowers or conversation hearts that say “Hot Stuff” or “Be Mine.” I love it that there’s a day in our busy lives when we officially celebrate love. I’m not just talking romantic love, like Hallmark would have us believe, but the real-deal, universal stuff-of-life that makes up who we really are. Behind all our roles and personalities and professionalism, each of us, at essence, is a living, loving being. Sure, on the other 364 days of the year we might try to fake it, but on this one day, the world agrees: Love is where it’s at. Call it spirit, call it sweetness — whatever you want to call it, we’ve all got it. It’s just a matter of what we do with it.

There are plenty of ways to do good and feel good this Valentine’s Day. Here are a few of my favorites.

1. Will You Be My…Volunteer? There’s no shortage of ways you can help. Volunteer at a local soup kitchen, animal shelter, or favorite nonprofit, or offer to tutor a child in reading or math. You can find loads of opportunities on VolunteerMatch, or check out DoSomething, which helps younger folks rock the causes they care about.

2.  Put the “Fun” in Fundraising. If you’re taking that special someone out for a pricey dinner, why not have your bill go to a good cause? Check your newspaper or online city pages for Valentine-themed fundraisers that support local nonprofits. Or better yet, throw your own happy hour or party and donate the proceeds to charity.

3. Give a Little Bit. Sometimes a little helps a lot. Looking to put your money where your mouth is? Donate a dollar a day to a cause that calls to you through Philanthroper. Or support students and classrooms in need in your hometown through DonorsChoose.

4. Send Love Letters. Not just to your sweetheart, but to people and organizations that are doing good things for the world. Tell them why you respect and appreciate their work, and that they really do make a difference. If you’re feeling extra romantic, include a donation.

5. Reach Out to Those in Need. Deliver homemade Valentine’s cards or heart-shaped cookies to the sick, the elderly, the homeless — and their caregivers. Call a local children’s hospital, nursing home, domestic violence or homeless shelter and ask how you can donate an hour or two of your time.

6. Give Gifts That Give. There are dozens of charitable shopping sites and online nonprofit stores selling gifts for a good cause. Look for red Motorola phones, Gap T-shirts and iPods from Apple to support the (Red) Campaign, or find cause-specific gifts to alleviate hunger, breast cancer, deforestation and more at Greater Good. Can’t find the perfect gift for your special someone? Give a Good Card through Network for Good.

7. Remember Those Who Serve You. Think of all those people who make your life easier and more convenient — every single day. Give a thank-you card to the bus driver or the barista who serves you your latte. Personally thank the janitor who keeps your office or campus clean, or the people who pick up your trash. Leave your waiter an extra tip, and smile–big–at the gas station attendant.

8. Clean Your Closets. Get a head start on spring-cleaning and donate clothes, toys, furniture, household items, and old computers to nonprofits accepting them. Check your local Big Brothers Big Sisters, Salvation Army, or Goodwill Industries.

9. Love Your Mother (Earth). Take the trash challenge: For one day, see if you can generate zero trash. Zip, nada, nothing. No cardboard boxes, no disposable containers, no bottled water. Think of what you can reduce and re-use, and call your county or city waste management to find out about local compost programs.

10. Get Your Heart Pumping. Charity walks and runs raise money for a good cause and get you moving in the great outdoors. Bring the family or your co-workers along to make it a team event. To find an event, check your local American Heart Association or a local runners’ club, such as Road Runners Club.

11. Adopt a Pet for a Day. Offer to take care of a pet for an ill or homebound neighbor. Volunteer at your local animal shelter to take the dogs for a walk. Or adopt an endangered species through the World Wildlife Fund, and you’ll get a lovable stuffed pet and adoption certificate.

12. Be a Fair-Trade Valentine. Buy certified fair-trade chocolate from companies that make sure small-scale farmers receive higher and more stable prices for their cocoa. Try Theo, Equal Exchange, or my new favorite: Alter-Ego Fair Trade (love their Dark Quinoa Chocolate – talk about a superfood!).

13. Say it With Organic Flowers. Buy fresh organic blooms from your local farmer’s market, or send a bunch from Organic Bouquet, which donates 10 percent to charities like CARE, the Global Fund for Women, and the American Red Cross.

14. Be Kind While You Dine. Taking your sweetie for a steak dinner this V-Day? Choose a restaurant that sources its meat from sustainable, humanely treated and harvested animals & farms. Visit Sustainable Table’s Eat Well Guide to find vendors that offer farms and stores that sell sustainably raised meat. For seafood lovers, download the Monterey Bay Aquarium’s Seafood Watch app for your smart phone.

15.Continue to Support Disaster Relief. We don’t hear much about Haiti or the Gulf Coast on the news these days, but these disasters are in need of much support. Here are a few ideas: Adopt a Brown Pelican through the International Bird Rescue Research Center, which picks up oiled birds, cleans and rehabilitates them. Or offer direct support to those facing financial devastation due to the Gulf Coast spill by donating at Protect Your Coastline. For Haiti and other world disasters, consider supporting an organization like Doctors Without Borders, which sends medical and non-medical aid workers to countries whose survival is threatened by violence, neglect, or catastrophe.

16. Say “I Do” to Charitable Weddings. Tying the knot this year? Consider creating a charitable gift registry through the I Do Foundation and its many retail and nonprofit partners.

and a bonus….

17. Celebrate with Small Acts of Kindness. Valentine’s Day isn’t the only holiday this week: February 14-20th is Random Acts of Kindness Week. What can you do? Pay for a coffee, lunch, or a toll for the person behind you in line. Tape the exact change for a soda to a vending machine. Send cards with joyful messages to strangers. Collect canned goods for a food bank. Shovel a neighbor’s driveway, or babysit a friend’s child for free. Visit Acts of Kindness for hundreds of other ideas.

Question: Do you have a charitable idea for Valentine’s Day? Something you’re planning to do or give? Let’s hear about it! Send me a comment below.

(Note: I originally posted article for the Case Foundation. This is an updated version – enjoy! And Happy Valentine’s Day.)

About Elaine

Elaine Gast Fawcett helps grantmakers, nonprofits and businesses tell their story, market their mission and attract more support.
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239 Responses to 16 Charitable Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day

  1. Rick Jones says:

    Nice blog, Elaine. I enjoy getting your posts and seeing a truly generous and gifted spirit making an impact. Keep up the good work!

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  3. virginia tsai says:

    glad you posted the article here too. I actually did #4 and #5 this morning: sent a letter to my paralyzed friend. Keep me up with all the postings.

  4. Beautiful, green thoughts…for a red day!


  5. I like the write a love letter one. Thanks for the idea – I think I’ll do that!

  6. Yvonne says:

    What a beautiful post!

  7. DawneeJo says:

    I prefer Un*Random Acts of Kindness. http://losgatosdelinfierno.wordpress.com/2011/02/10/unrandom-acts-of-kindness/ But a great Un*Random post with great links. Have a great Valentine’s Day. Thank you for the early V-Day blog post gift. 😉

  8. Lakia Gordon says:

    I remember the carnations. I never got any though lol. Also, #16 is a great idea! Thanks for sharing.

  9. Seconded on that Alter Ego Dark Quinoa and well, pretty much everything else here.
    Donorschoose is SUCH a great thing and I absolutely cannot say enough about being able to make an impact on the kids that benefit from it.

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  12. This is a beautiful post. Thank you.

    I’m personally not a huge fan of the Hallmark-y aspect of Valentine’s Day, but these are some wonderful ideas to turn what has become a clichéd excuse for card companies to make more money into something really beautiful.

    They’re some fantastic ideas, and I’ll be sure to take note of them.

  13. FinallyFast says:

    I’ve always kind of secretly hated the 14th of Feb. But these are great ideas!

  14. Becki Px says:

    Thank you for this great list that shows real love and causes.
    My boyfriend will be celebrating by donating blood! http://www.redcrossblood.org

  15. this is AWESOME. especially since im single so i wont be spending my money on a female!

  16. These are great ideas – and timely!

  17. Hi, I love this post and wanted you to know that I’ve got #4 covered for everyone! At ThankingOfYou.com, the Web-based forum for posting and receiving messages of thanks for the people who’ve made a difference in our lives, we’re really urging people to thank the charities and “do-good” organizations who’ve impacted theirs. It not only affirms the great work they do and inspires its continuum–and they so deserve to hear it–but when posted in an independent public forum like ThankingOfYou, it also increases online visibility of their cause and of true-life testimonials that money can’t buy. This can be a valuable gift to those organizations, as these stories of gratitude can influence the decisions of prospective patrons or donors who are searching for criteria in a sea of options. And typically, the primary motivator of those who do such work is not lavish gifts. Often, it’s the sense that they’re making a difference in the lives of others. Why not give them what they really want 😉

  18. J Roycroft says:

    I like your idea, especially since it does not include the imperial federal government telling me I have to “give back” when I never took anything. Congrats on FP

  19. This is a really great list, thanks for posting!

  20. may delory says:

    Yup, gotta agree! Sent my donation last week to Queensland, Australia.

  21. Brenda says:

    I love your suggestions. I too have done for others on Valentine’s Day, like clothes donations, sending cards to single friends and giving out candy. It’s a great day to show love. Focusing on others brings you joy.

  22. I was traumatized by those stupid carnations too – to make it worse, my best friend broke all school records for most received every single year. It wasn’t awkward or anything, lol.

    Anyway, awesome post. You’ve set me back on track…. I’d send you a carnation if I knew how, lol.

  23. theveryhungrybookworm says:

    I really enjoyed your post and I think it is important for us to remember that Valentine’s Day can be about love in all forms. I even think that there is something really sweet about eating a Valentine’s Day dinner in (make it romantic and intimate), and taking the money that you would have spent on the dinner out to suppot your local food pantry.

    It’s a nice way of spreading the love 🙂

  24. Great way to look at love and Valentine’s day.

  25. anonnickus says:

    I can do at least nine of those things without feeling pressured. Good list. I like them every one.

  26. Me says:

    This is the greatest Valentine’s blog post in the world!!! I absolutely love it!!!

    Brilliant Ms. and I shall keep this post in my heart for always… Thanks ~

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  31. These are all great ideas. I love the one about taping exact change to a pop machine.

  32. zainylainy says:

    These are great ideas! I will be sure to spread random acts of kindness next week!

  33. nataliasepulveda says:

    Thank you I really enjoyed reading this. I got many ideas for V-day!

  34. Dave says:

    Nice to find a good list of things to do on valentine’s day which won’t cost a fortune. Of all the holiday celebrations this is surely the one which is most commercialised – these days it seems to all be about buying naff cards and chocolates rather than the joy of loving and giving

  35. lifelovelaughs says:

    Great post! You bring up some excellent ideas that can get the entire family involved! I think it’s best when everyone at home is helping out, not just one or two people! We should be taught at an early age to give back so that it becomes a lifelong passion. Keep up the good work!

  36. Magnolia says:

    Hey Elaine, Great great post! I have been working on a small article about giving back for Valentines day, but especially to those who do not expect anything. I really like your list and will do one of them.

  37. All of these are great ideas.. Now to just find a valentine!

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  40. poetsplace says:

    Wonderful post. Great ideas. I’m saving this one.

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  43. aww these are great ideas. i’m going to try volunteering.

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  45. this post was really good, can’t wait to read future posts!

  46. Generation 26 says:

    It was kind of funny reading about waiting for a carnation that never came cause thats what happened today lol
    I liked this blog though 🙂 I honestly never thought about volunteering on V-Day…maybe I’ll go hug people:)

  47. What a great idea! It’s nice to focus on others. Congrats on being FP, too!


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  49. #11 Be a Fair Trade Valentine. Thank you for including this in your list. So few people know about the Fair Trade movement, and it’s one of my passions.

    I love all of your suggestions. Maybe I won’t spend my Valentine’s Day with Jane Austen and vanilla ice cream after all…

    • Elaine says:

      Yes – I agree, Maggie, I think there are too few people who will dish out the extra dollar for Fair Trade because they aren’t aware of the issues. Thanks for commenting. Would love to hear more about your work/interest in that movement.

  50. Very diggable, I especially like #5. But how dare you knock romantic love as something better left to the realm of Hallmark.

    • Elaine says:

      I’m a romantic just as much as the next person – really! I just think a lot of people dread Valentine’s day for its commercialism and cliche. Hallmark is the poster child for that. 🙂

  51. harkheindzel says:

    I love your post. And the name of the tips is really catchy. Great job

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  54. cateyeimages says:

    🙂 I really enjoyed reading this.
    I also went through my closet and found some clothes to donate!
    Congratulations on really capturing the true essence of Valentine’s Day!

  55. Jen says:

    Your #2 inspired me to fundraise – I’m thinking of throwing a ‘cooking class’ for some friends, so their ‘fee’ will actually be a donation. It will be a fun time together and a good cause… now I just have to figure out what cause I want to support! I might partner with some of my friends who run marathons for cancer 🙂

    • Elaine says:

      I love this idea! As a foodie and chef myself, I may try this one too! Great way to gather people for a good cause (and good eats). Thanks for sharing, Jen.

  56. whenquiet says:

    At Christmas time, I give wine and chocolate to the post office attendants and garbage collectors in our village. In the summer time, I leave apples, figs and mirabella fruit on an outside table for free at our shop in Basel…….I will perform this Spring for a fund-raiser for Justice for Walid(an organization focused on the retrial for the murder of Walid Essolh). Walid was a young Moroccan man who resided in Kembs, France.

  57. christinadugan says:

    I think the idea of adopting a pet for the day is a winner! These ideas are great and I am going to share them!

  58. Ellie King says:

    This is brilliant! I was going to write my own blog about Valentine’s not just being about romance, but you totally beat me to it! 😀 Love it, well done 🙂

  59. Loved this! I think we all need to be more service-minded. Love isn’t just a fairy-tale feeling, it’s something we can tangibly convey to our neighbors and communities through service. Thanks for the “love-ly” ideas!

  60. I like your spin on Valentine’s Day. 🙂

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  62. In my view, Valentine’s day is just a stupid, cliché-filled consumerist day. This post, though, changes the meaning of it all. It’is the only intelligent thing I’ve ever read on the subject 😉 Thanks.

  63. Awesome 🙂 I’ll be volunteering at a community clinic in the evening after uni. Although when I first decided that I didn’t actually know it was Valentine’s Day.
    Well done on making Freshly Pressed 🙂

  64. pafmurray says:

    Very nice blog!

    Unfortunately I come from the worst place for charitable giving, volunteerism and even blood contributions in Canada (and only W.VA and one of the Dakotas are worse for giving)

    Please feel free to check out my blog and laugh as I embarrass Montreal’s politicians into doing what is in the best interest of humanity.

  65. pprmntmocha says:

    I’m jealous! I love your blog, because it is so motivational!

  66. Full Figure Monologues says:

    This article was absolutely wonderful. Thank you

  67. louids says:

    great post! i couldn’t agree more, valentine’s is more than just romance, its about love.
    I actually plan to get a bunch of flowers to hand out to anyone that passes by.

    • Elaine says:

      Great idea, louids ! I would love to hear how that goes. We so seldom expect random acts of kindness and generosity from others these days. It would be great to somehow record the strange or delighted gifts you get from your flower recipients!

  68. Genevieve says:

    wow, with altruism being its own deity in this culture, isn’t there one damn day a year we can think only of the one who makes us happiest on earth?

    • Elaine says:

      Yes – most definitely, Genevieve! It’s all about where you’re at. I agree – sometimes the most charitable we can be is to give to ourselves and those we love. It’s the number one restorative thing we can do.

      I’d love to hear more on your take on altruism being its own deity. Do you think it’s that prevalent a value in our culture? I know there IS something to be said for over-giving and hitting do-gooder fatigue. I’m curious to hear different opinions on this.

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  70. The Compulsive Writer says:

    Last year I made some V-day cookies and put them on my neighbor’s door. She is an older lady and appears to be lonely so I thought it would cheer her up. I think it did.

    • Elaine says:

      Nice ! Sounds like it may have cheered you as well. That’s what I love about giving – it’s as much (if not more) for the giver as it is the receiver.

  71. ash says:

    wuah.. lovely.
    thank you for the inspirations 🙂

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  73. kimchee3011 says:

    Thanks Elaine. I’ve already done a few from your list.

    Happy Valentine’s Day to you and yours.

  74. Jim says:

    Looks like it was already suggested, but I have to second donating blood! I think it would make a great date idea, especially because you’d be able to share something sweet afterward.

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  76. dadenalxio says:

    “Epic, amazing, creative, inspiring” came to mind after I read this.


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  78. ahitagni says:

    Very nice post. Enjoyed reading it. 🙂

  79. 0525diana says:

    Every valentines that comes every year ends up in disaster maybe instead of trying to hard to make it perfect, I should leave alone and take as a normal day…. I mean its only moday like any normal day.

  80. Ahh love letters, I’ve always chosen writing letters than buying cards.

  81. PHARKPOOM says:

    ^ ^ lovely.

  82. These are great suggestions Elaine. Thank you for sharing them with us. We can do them not only on Valentine’s Day but all year round.

    Question: How did you make the “About Elaine” show under this post? Is there a setting that can be changed to have it done or is it custom-made with this WordPress theme? I’m new in WordPress and will appreciate if you can answer this.

    Keep spreading the love!


  83. kindkerry80 says:

    This is a very thoughtful post, well done Elaine!

  84. vanimator says:

    Wonderful Post !!
    Thanks for the share.


  85. leadinglight says:

    Sounds just like the sort of thing I would do. I enjoyed the love letter idea. Would the old people be able to eat cookies? Teeth are not as strong when you are older… Love the vending machine change tip 🙂

  86. Cherszy says:

    Nice post! Loved your tips for Valentine’s Day! Here’s one more for me to add: be aware of the social issues faced by the world today and try to be the voice of people who have been robbed of their own, such as victims of human trafficking, bullying, and wars. Share the love! 🙂

  87. Janet says:

    Great ideas to refocu the day back towards it’s true meaning.

  88. shaokhanazs says:

    well its inspired me, nice post 🙂

  89. FAFE says:

    Hello Dear Writer, tht was nice reading the blog thanks for sharing wit us a broader meaning,purpose and need to celebrate valentine’s day…ofcourse we can live our lyf’s way we like way we want for our own happiness but the real lyf is one when lived for others.Making happy only one special person in ur lyf on v’day if we instead embrace the world around us wit tht special sumone is a beautiful version.

  90. hopefultransitions says:

    This is exactly what I’d bet St. Valentine would have wanted us to do! This holiday is not about romance but the true love of selfless service. Is there anyone alone in a nursing home that you know of? Visit them this weekend!

  91. Great suggestions and I have been trying to promote the American Heart Association be donating a portion of the proceed of my Heart month angel. If everyone would do something to help others or a favorite charity we can make this world a better place.

  92. Sasha says:

    Elaine, this is such a wonderful post.

    I’m hoping to turn Valentine’s Day into Generosity Day….would love your support with a post on Monday!

    Here are the details:


  93. michaelbross says:

    Thanks Elaine! The experiences make for much better memories.

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  97. I love this so much I decided to refer to it in my own blog. This is really quite beautiful. My husband says “Holidays are an opportunity for us to celebrate collectively and simultaneously things we should be celebrating individually and continually.” and I really think this blog shows us an alternative to uniquely make this holiday about others.

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  99. beckafly says:

    The carnation that never came, oh middle school. As an adult like you, I’ve come to realize its about not romantic love, but love. I’m actually spending valentines day with a few friends volunteering at a thermal shelter in the evening. It’s about giving love-friends, family and strangers, not just that special someone.

  100. Pilar says:

    gorgeous post, great ideas, best wishes for a lovely Valentine, and love all year to everything and love and tolerance to everybody

  101. Ted says:

    Great article, babe. I can take a hint!

  102. Felice says:

    I get so excited about the impact of true expressions of appreciation–for both recipients and givers! Your post does an excellent job of inspiring others to consider the power of their words AND use them in a way to truly encourage love this Valentine’s Day. I’ve been collecting (and sharing) the grateful reflections of my neighbors in love letter form and will be adding your ideas as another prompt for reflection!

  103. plans chair says:

    These are great idea . nice post , thanks.

  104. Anne says:

    Oh, Elaine, I love this! You are such an excellent writer and have such a heart for others. Keep up this great work and congrats on having WP choose you as one of the best bloggers! Love you on Valentine’s Day and every day!

  105. lovegalliani says:

    i don’t have lover right now, but i think valentine’s day is for people should remember who they really love, and who give us love…..

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  107. It’s good to see that others can also seen that too much emphasis is put on spending on material items to prove that you love someone on just one day of the year. It’s nonsensical.

    Nicely written

  108. eB says:

    I really enjoyed this and am linking it on my blog.

  109. Radu says:

    Nice post! You have lovely ideas about this day, call “Valentine`s day”. In my opinion, we mustn`t love or show our love for our boyfriend/girlfriend just for a day, we can be a romantic person each day; like in Christmas, we shouldn`t be a kind person just for a day, we can show patience and love on other 364 days. I do not read all the posts on your blog, but perhaps I will do in the near future. Good luck in your new posts and have a nice “Valentine`s day” with your boyfriend, or with your family, friends.

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  112. Ali says:

    Thanks for the Wondorful Post Lady.

    Appericiate that

  113. Gloriadelia says:

    Lovely perspective on the holiday. Thanks. My daughter says she hates Valentine’s Day and I posted you on her facebook page. 🙂

  114. b says:

    LOVE146 and Legacy of Hope International

    Great sites for sharing true love!


  115. These are all really good ideas. Thanks for sharing them!

  116. Nicole says:

    This was great! Thanks!

  117. Very interesting ideas to do on one of my favorite days of the year. I love when people use creativity!

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  119. I like the random acts of kindness. Have you heard of Secret Agent L? I really like her approach and I have left little surprises around for anonymous people before. I think this V day I will deliver flower stems and hearts to the seniors in the assisted living by my house. Thanks for you post. It is really inspiring!

  120. sarahnsh says:

    This is a great idea, I personally am thinking maybe I’ll get some nice little somethings for my co-workers for Valentine’s Day, we’ll see. It definitely is a celebration of love and good feelings, why not share the love?

  121. miss L says:

    LOVE this post……
    clap clap clap….two thumbs up!!!!
    this post is something that REALLY really matters……
    folks…spread this charitable ways…..thanks for sharing “”””

  122. pal bha says:

    Beautiful post, keep it up.

    best regard
    pal bha

  123. chris says:

    this is great me and my girl are going to help out with a childrens charity going to be good

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  125. Nandini says:

    Wonderful post. Really encouraging. Sharing it on my blog 🙂

    Thank you!

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  128. rgu123 says:

    These are all really good ideas. Thanks for sharing them!

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  130. really great thoughts and new ideas

  131. these are some pretty great ideas for [quite possibly] one of the worst/most pointless “holidays” known to mankind. a puppy sounds like a great Valentine, but definitely for more than just a day haha.

  132. Suhasini says:

    Beautiful post! Very creative ideas. Thanks for sharing.

  133. coolbeansncrispybacon says:

    Hey, I really loved reading this, Valentines day really is a time for giving 🙂

  134. shahdhamouri says:

    This really made me in a good mood, i just went through a hard time. i decided to make small heart shaped cards and leave them on the disks of students tomorrow, this really should be kindness week

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  136. Wordywoman says:

    Great ideas to increase awareness for global humanity. Thanks for sharing!

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  139. thank you, i have found this through fate and will spread the message in my own way, well done 🙂

  140. snapcarolina says:

    Beautiful! Thanks for this, its on my list. xx

  141. James Ellis says:

    In this day and age it’s a great idea.

  142. caracato says:

    Thanks for all the practical suggestions, those are some great ideas. Reminds me of an event my church used to run at Christmas time, where you could buy gifts for others that were charitable contributions you made on their behalf. E.g., you could buy an hour of reading to a blind person, or medications for needy children, or a goat for a family in Africa. The money you spent went to those specific purposes, and you gave a card to your gift recipient telling them what the money went to.

  143. madmothermusings says:

    I love this idea! You are right, we have so many marketing ideas lobbed at us, that valentines day is about romantic love, I love that you remind us it can be about any selfless love! Great post!

  144. Felicia says:

    Got my mind off of my own problems and made me feel like I could do something good for others…awesome. I still wish I had gotten something romantic and special from someone my heart desires, though, today. Which i know I never will…but this article is so much more important than any one person’s vanity , I guess? Who knows?

  145. iceyjoke says:

    I admire your thoughts, although the misfits of society are honest we must let them know that they are not alone in this world. We must celebrate life everyday and if we can help someone with something…Just do it. But the words are big and we like “socialize” from now on we put ourself in a good mood doing this without even try to remember what was the feeling when you read it first , that’s why we are optimist’s maybe one day we can do better. I advice you all to even to try to understand the meaning of Neuro-Linguistic programming. This discipline will light up your mind and hope to a good future for all of us, you can start NLP with my idol Nicholas Boothman, master practitioner of NLP, google it it’s a good start. Once again i wanted to thank you Elaine for sharing with us, and i apologize if i say something wrong, and excuse my English. Feel free to contact me anytime you want all of you. Have a nice day and enjoy your Valentine.

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  148. Idea Studio says:

    Fantastic article! Nice view of life!
    Thank you for showing me an other aspect of this day!

  149. Enjoyed your post! Saw it on Freshly Pressed…Congrats! That’s a big deal. Good Luck!

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  153. Nice post. I’d like to point out two things of dubious importance:

    1)’An estimated 1 billion St Valentine’s Day cards will be sent worldwide this year, making it the second most card-heavy celebration after Christmas’ (Telegraph, UK). For me, promoting ethical card sales seems by far the easiest and most effective way to inject some philanthropy into Valentines Day. There does seem to be far less linkage between the festival and charity-shop card-selling than there does at Christmas.

    2) Did you know that the festival is over 1500 years old and used to be celebrated by whipping? Perhaps some whipping could be re-introduced? Maybe of bankers? Maybe over 1500 of them? After all, festivals are all about keeping traditions alive. Just a thought…

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  156. Vivian says:

    Hi there!!
    this is awsome!
    these are such good ideas for Valentines Day!
    you have make a material consumistic Day in a really Day of friendship and love!

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  159. Lok says:

    This is an absolutely lovely way to celebrate Valentine’s Day.

    I try to challenge myself to view every day as Valentine’s Day because it is important to share love to those you love.

    ~ Smile Always, L.

  160. Shivya says:

    Great article! I’m sharing it on Twitter and hoping everyone will pick atleast 1 of the ways. Happy Valentine’s Day btw. You’ve done your share of good 🙂

  161. simran44 says:

    I was very encouraged to find this site. I wanted to thank you for this special read. I definitely savored every little bit of it and I have bookmarked you to check out new stuff you post.


  162. I love your ideas for Valentines Day!
    Normally, I don’t like the holiday because I think it is too commercialized and influences people to spend their money unwisely. Everyone should give gifts like that ones you mentioned because they spread love and kindness to people or animals in need. Money used to help a good cause is never a bad way to use your money.

  163. chocolatespacemonkey says:

    I like what you’re doing very very much. Keep it up.

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  167. CUTE4HERSELF says:

    HAPPY V-DAY 2 Y’ALL…: P…<3…~~~

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  169. Hellen Mar says:

    Good tips – thanks for sharing!

  170. PlanMill says:

    Good job with your blog; we have reposted this for our readers in Finland!

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  173. countoncross says:

    Great post….very good ideas! -Thank you

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  175. adefunmi says:

    This is a really nice work, or nice blog. It’s really inspiring. Keep up the good work.

  176. What a great post Elaine!! Please visit our website to learn how you can help our nonprofit, help Lakota (Sioux) children in need on this special holiday: St. Joseph’s Indian School (http://bit.ly/g2Va8W).

  177. Loved this. I am saddened by how much this has become a holiday focused on gifts and cards and giving more money to the flower and card industries. Great post!

  178. ElenaSC says:

    Happy Valentine’s Day everybody! Let’s commit today to love more often! http://wp.me/pXsUB-H9

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  181. eric says:

    wow! cool post! 😀

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  184. Sarah Peace says:

    This is great and well written Elaine, there is more to Valentine’s day than the commercialism.

  185. Robert here from VolunteerMatch – Thanks so much for sharing the love about what we do to help people find a great place to volunteer. Great ideas all around 🙂

    Also, for readers who are inspired by video, here’s a great PSA one of our team members put together last week on personal passion, making a difference and volunteering — apologies to eHarmony.com!

    Robert (Twitter: @volmatch)

  186. Great ideas, thanks for sharing 🙂

  187. Joscelin says:

    Hi, Great post! Another idea: when you order flowers or V.Day gifts through causes.com/valentine, Causes will donate $10 to the non-profit of your choosing. This is good through tomorrow too. A great way to give back via a purchase you would have made anyway.

  188. site kurma says:

    I love too much your ideas , great post.

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  190. Flowers says:

    great site very cool and informative.

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  192. babymom says:

    Thank you for this! Beautiful post!


  193. Patrick says:

    Thank you Elaine. I’ve fowarded your inspiring words to others and in return they have given back. If you have time please take a look at my fundraising blog http://dfmc2011.wordpress.com/about/.

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